A nasty virus has been going around our community and made it into our home. It passed from child to child, starting with a fever and fatigue, and ending with a pale face and cough. I got a sore throat, but no fever, so I thought I was doing fairly well.
Then a few days later, I experienced severe muscle pain in legs and hips, and a splitting headache. For a few days my emotions and energy levels were up and down. One minute I was feeling good and doing things, the next, I was crying or crashing in bed. It didn’t help that Mike was working a long string of nights.
There were many times I had to rely on my kids to get some things done that I couldn’t do. They changed more diapers, put siblings to bed, helped prepare and serve food, cleaned up. These are things I like to have them help with anyway, but I’ve been asking them to do double duty.
The soup was a success, and I realized that teaching Nathan to make soups is an important skill that we should work on more often.
It’s good to have challenges from time to time, that force us to do things a little differently. It’s healthy for our children to move out of their comfort zones and work harder for the good of the family. And if we as parents make our requests to them kindly and patiently, they can feel good and proud of their contributions, especially when they are desperately needed.
So next time mom’s feeling under the weather, let the kids step up a bit.
If we stay positive, it will all work out eventually.
What do you do to cope when you’re down?